Definition of domestic violence
Domestic violence is a big word, one that frequently confuses or misleads
Arapahoe County and the Denver-Metro area. It is vague, and over broad. Because of that,
it gets charged a lot more than people think. Essentially
there are three (3) main parts to the
legal definition of the word 'domestic violence'. First, you must have been in an intimate relationship with another person.
This could be in the present tense or past tense. The age or sex of the
other person does not matter, nor does marital status or possibly even
length of time. As an example, two women dating for 1 week could be involved
in an act of domestic violence. Intimacy is also vague and over broad.
It could mean anything from a 20 year marriage, to hooking up weekly for
sex. The final and third part of domestic violence is you have to exhibit
- or attempt to exhibit - control, threat, or dominion over the other
person. Again (no surprise here) this is a vague and over broad word.
People have been charged with domestic violence for being 'verbally'
controlling over the other person with their words. Sometimes it involves
the other person taking personal property and withholding it as a means
of control. Of course, the most common form is some type of physical act,
i.e hitting, pushing, or even restraining.